We are shaped by so many things
beyond our control — our parents, our environment, our socio-economic status
and, certainly, to some degree the times in which we are raised.
In a world that daily seems on the
verge of chaos, it sometimes seems peculiar to be optimistic. And, yet, for the
most part that is how I would describe myself. Sure, I have my moments of
despair (usually after seeing a commercial for Here Comes Honey Boo Boo) but, by and large, I’m a firm believer in a better
tomorrow.
And while I can absolutely
attribute that feeling of optimism to my parents (loving), environment (stable)
and socio-economic status (middle class), no question the historical events of
my youth played a significant factor. One, in particular, well above the rest.
Neil Armstrong’s fateful first
step on the moon.
Now, let us remember that 1969 was
not exactly the happiest of days in the United States. The Vietnam War, the
Civil Rights Movement, the aftermath of the King and Kennedy assassinations ...
it was maelstrom of unrest.
But that glorious moment in July,
well, it was simply transcendent. A crystalline monument to man’s better
impulses. It was, quite literally, out of this world!
With Neil Armstrong’s passing on
August 25, there has been an unavoidable void left behind. A gulf as wide and
dark as the space between the earth and moon itself.
The Apollo Program (like the
Mercury and Gemini programs that came before) was a constant, daily reminder
that we could do better. That we could strive for the impossible and will it
into being through hard work and sacrifice.
And the whole world gathered to
watch.
Try to think. When was the last
time you watched the nightly news and felt good afterward? Felt uplifted and optimistic about the future and filled
with wonder and excitement. Sadly, for many people (like my children), the
answer is never. But for us
decrepit old dinosaurs, we remember it well. And we long for it desperately
again. Ache for it.
What’s truly amazing to consider
when looking back on the extraordinary life of Neil Armstrong, is that it’s
entirely possible that walking on the moon was just the beginning of what he had to teach us. His walk through the
chalky dust of the moon made him a hero, but the way he behaved after returning
from his journey made him a legend.
I earlier referenced Honey Boo Boo
not just for an easy joke (although, come on, have you seen these people?) but
to illustrate what this generation is constantly assaulted with. The
Kardashians and Lohans and Hiltons and, yes, Honey Freakin’ Boo Boos. People
who have done nothing, offer nothing and yet we exalt them, follow them, throw
money at them. A society where people will do absolutely anything for a shot at
fame (or infamy). Where being humble is a punch line. Where intelligent,
rationale conversation will get you cancelled in a day in favor of a new show
filled with vapid, plastic housewives slapping each other.
For a generation such as this,
it’s probably impossible for them to comprehend what Armstrong did, and how he
behaved, when he was once again captured in earth’s gravity. Here he was, the
most famous man on the planet, and he could have done anything. Endorsements. Television deals. Scandalous,
irresponsible behavior for which the adoring public would gladly have forgiven
him. The public’s adulation could have lined his pockets forever.
But, the man who showed unshakable
nerves when Gemini 8 went into high-speed gyrations (nearly causing the crew to
black out) and the man whose veins dripped ice when he landed the lunar module
on the moon with only 30 seconds of fuel remaining, was heroic in more ways
than one. He was a hero for bravely and calmly helping usher mankind into a new
era and he was perhaps even more a hero
for insisting we not idolize him for it.
When asked later in life why he
shied away from being labeled a hero, his stoic response with this: “We all
like to be recognized not for one piece of fireworks but for the ledger of our
daily work.” In other words, one act of greatness does not necessarily make you
great. But living a noble and dignified life in its entirety does.
Armstrong was also acutely aware
(and discussed it often) that his trip to the moon was the work of multitudes
of other people. He may have been the man to take that soft, slow-motion descent
to the moon’s surface but he was very well aware that he was standing on the
shoulders of thousands of other people’s efforts and hard work. And he really
didn’t think it fair that the spotlight should shine so heavily upon him, just
one piece of a glorious machine. Just a guy, he felt, who was doing his job.
We live in a culture filled with
athletes who demand we worship them because they can catch a ball, and rappers
dripping in almost comical self-importance (and diamonds!) hoping to distract
us from the fact that they have no real discernible talent, and reality ‘stars’
who ... well, you get the idea.
All of these fools are paraded in front of us 24/7, and the one person
who actually deserves our accolades, is uncomfortable with the attention.
So how best to honor such a man?
Simple. By blatantly ignoring his wishes when it comes to celebrity worship.
Neal Armstrong was a man who did not want to be considered a hero. And I
couldn’t respect him more for that. But — here’s the thing — he was a hero! And we should be shouting his
accomplishments from the rooftops. As well as his fellow travelers Aldrin and
Collins and the scores of grand thinkers at NASA who made the whole thing
possible.
When Armstrong passed away, I
awaited in-depth retrospectives on his life, emotional outpourings of what he
meant to the world. Instead, his passing was met with ... indifference. Yes, it
was reported in the news but certainly not with the breathless immediacy of
Whitney Houston’s death or even Lindsay Lohan’s latest traffic accident. Some
short mentions on the cable news networks and then on to the next scandal. I
scoured the magazine racks the week after his death, and ONE magazine had it on
their front cover. It was in the top corner, a small photo, far outstripped by the
magazine’s main story — Prince Harry caught naked in Las Vegas.
Sigh.
Now, I’m not nearly naive enough
to believe our celebrity culture will ever stop idolizing people who clearly do
not deserve adulation, but is it too much to ask that along with the athletes,
actors and rock stars, we also save some hero worship for the scientists,
educators, explorers and philanthropists who seriously work toward moving us
out of the dark ages of ignorance and bigotry and toward a better tomorrow.
So, yes, July 20th should
be a national holiday. A day in which young people are encouraged to think
about the future. Think about their place in the world. And, most importantly,
think about how they are going to make this planet better for us all. It will
be a day for dreams — dreams that some day may become reality. Just like the
once-crazy notion that man would walk upon our faraway lunar neighbor, smiling
down at us from the night sky.
People like Neil Armstrong don’t
want recognition for their greatness but it’s up to us to make certain that
they get it. For, thanks to him and the dreamers at NASA, my generation was
forged in an age of wonder. For us, the skies were not the limit.